So over the last few weeks I've stopped getting swap notifications. Ok no big deal... it's happened before. So I go in and manually look and I'll see requests. I'll see one... and I'll look to see if there is any message attached and see that no... no message. Most of the time if I don't see a message I'll cancel without a message either (assuming that there isn't a good swap match there).
What's bizarre is that now... 3,4 or even 5 days after i cancel, a message with all of a sudden pop up on that swap... (back dated) and I get an email for it..... So now it looks like people are messaging me... and I'm cancelling without a word. I always respond if someone initiates a conversation with me so if that's happened to anyone here I'm truly sorry. I don't even know what I can do about this. @Liz Cadman
perhaps there is something that can be looked into